We believe the Gateway to Freedom workshop is powerful and effective in leading men out of sexual addiction to a life of purity, but we also understand some of the anxieties and apprehensions that surface when considering attending such an event. You are not alone! We hope the answers below will better prepare you for what you might experience at a GTF workshop.

If your specific question is not addressed here, please call us toll free at the number listed on the top of this page (M-F 9am - 3pm), or email us at info@gatewaymen.com.

What topics will the workshop cover?

-- The nature of lust and temptation
-- False Intimacy vs. True Intimacy
-- Boundaries
-- Restoring trust and communication in marriage
-- Triggers and how to manage temptations
-- The process of change and coping with chaos
-- Written, personalized purity plan for recovery
-- Shame: Its effects and how to overcome it
-- Relapse response and prevention
-- Accountability that works!
-- And more...

Who should attend the Gateway to Freedom (GTF) workshop?

The GTF workshop is for men (married, single, or divorced; age 18 or older) who display any of the following characteristics:

• Regular use of pornography
• Have had one or more affairs
• Habitual masturbation
• Lying to hide secret sexual behaviors
• Feelings of intense shame over sexual behaviors
• Desire to deal aggressively with lust struggles
• Secret sexual fantasies
• Experienced unwanted sexual encounters during childhood or adolescence

Yes! There is limited space for each workshop, therefore only the first 20 men to register will secure a spot. So, be sure to register early to ensure your space at the workshop. If the workshop fills up, you will be offered an opening on the next upcoming workshop date.

Why do you limit the workshop to only 20 men?

Real transformation often occurs in a small group setting. By limiting the number of men attending the GTF workshop, it allows for more interaction among all the men. Smaller groups prevent a man from feeling like a number and provides each man with quality attention and care. Breakout groups are, therefore, never larger than 10 men, usually around 7-8 in each group.

How is the workshop material presented?

Jonathan Daugherty
(Main Workshop Speaker)

Jonathan received degrees in Communication and Psychology from Angelo State University in San Angelo, Texas. He currently serves as executive director of Be Broken Ministries and hosts a weekly radio program, Pure Sex Radio. He is in demand nationally as a speaker for sexual integrity issues. After 13 years of sexual addiction nearly ruined his marriage and career, Jonathan got help and, since 2000, has been helping men win the battle for sexual purity.

Stephen Cervantes
(Small Group Leader)

Stephen is a member of the board of directors for Be Broken Ministries, the parent organization of Gateway to Freedom, and founder of Hope Counseling Center (www.hopecounseling.com). He has served as vice chairman of the board since the formation of the ministry in summer 2003. He is also the co-founder of the Men of Purity movement (www.menofpurity.com). Stephen has over 20 years of counseling experience.

Lee Preston
(Small Group Leader)

Lee is a member of the board of directors for Be Broken Ministries. He has a Masters of Science degree in Counseling Psychology and over 15 years of experience in the counseling field; he believes that it is only through the guidance of the Holy Spirit that true healing can take place. Lee is the founder of Shadow of His Wings Ministry (www.shadowofhiswingsministry.com).

Small Group Leaders - We have a team of licensed professional counselors who facilitate the small group sessions where men process the information contained in the main teaching sessions. These counselors are required to have at least 5 years experience in dealing with men struggling with sexual purity issues.

Is there an application process for registering for the workshop?

Yes and no. While there is no formal, or clinical, application process to register for the GTF workshop, we do screen each potential participant to ensure that they are a good fit for the program (this is accomplished by completing a short questionnaire). For instance, the GTF workshop would not be a good fit for someone battling alcohol or drug addictions. This program is geared specifically for men struggling with sexually addictive thoughts and behaviors.

How often do the workshops occur?

The GTF workshop is scheduled periodically throughout the year, with a maximum of 12 workshops for any calendar year (currently, anyway). For a complete schedule of current workshop dates, visit our online calendar, or call our toll free number at the top of this page (M-F 9am-3pm CST).

Where are the workshops located?

All current GTF workshops are held near San Antonio, Texas in the beautiful hill country (north of SA, south of Austin). Directions will be provided once registration is complete. Attendees traveling by air to San Antonio will be provided with complimentary shuttle service to the retreat center (approximately 45 minutes from SA airport). Shuttle service for air travelers will run only once on Friday morning (8:30 am) with return service included on Sunday after the final session of the workshop.

How much does the workshop cost, and what is included in the weekend?

This is the million dollar question, right? Thankfully, that isn't how much the GTF workshop costs! Below is more information on the cost and value of the GTF workshop.

Total GTF Workshop Cost: $899

The value of what you receive:

• 2 nights lodging ($200 value)
• Meal service; 6 full meals total ($100 value)
• Eight intensive teaching sessions on building a life of sexual integrity; nearly 9 solid hours of teaching ($750 value)
• Eight small group sessions with a licensed professional counselor; over 10 solid hours of professional group counseling ($850 value)
• All workshop literature; workbook, resource catalog, etc. ($40 value)
• Inclusion in Gateway AfterCare program; counselor consultation, support group selection assistance, 12-month ongoing support care through our qualified sex addiction recovery network, helpful resources for wives, audio recordings of all workshop teaching sessions ($1200 value)
• Personal interaction with program facilitator and small group leaders (decades of expertise and insight in one location)
• Lifetime access to Alumni directory for encouragement and accountability

BEFORE YOU LET COST KEEP YOU FROM REGISTERING, PLEASE CALL US AT 1.800.49.PURITY TO DISCUSS CREATIVE FUNDING OPTIONS.

What is your cancellation policy?

While it is our desire to see each man who registers attend a workshop, we understand that there can be emergencies. We require 14 days notice in order to cancel a workshop registration and provide a full refund (minus the $100 non-refundable deposit). A 50% refund will be given if your registration is cancelled within 14 days of the workshop. However, you may roll over your full registration fee (minus the $100 non-refundable deposit) to a subsequent workshop date if you desire. But before you cancel, please call us to see if we might be able to help you work out a creative solution.

How can I register for the Gateway to Freedom workshop?

Call our toll free number (1.800.49.PURITY) between 9am - 3pm Central Time or click here to register online.

What is the workshop schedule?

Friday
10:30 - 11:30 am - Workshop Registration & Check In
11:30 am - 12:30 pm - Lunch
12:30 - 1:30 pm - Teaching Session 1
1:30 - 1:45 pm - Break
1:45 - 3:15 pm - Small Group 1
3:15 - 3:30 pm - Break
3:30 - 4:30 pm - Teaching Session 2
4:30 - 4:45 pm - Break
4:45 - 6:30 pm - Small Group 2
6:30 - 7:30 pm - Dinner (staff meeting)
7:30 - 8:30 pm - Teaching Session 3
8:30 - 8:45 pm - Break
8:45 - 10:00 pm - Small Group 3

Saturday
7:30 - 8:30 am - Breakfast
8:30 - 9:30 am - Teaching Session 4
9:30 - 9:45 am - Break
9:45 - 11:00 am - Small Group 4
11:00 - 11:15 am - Break
11:15 am - 12:15 pm - Teaching Session 5
12:15 - 1:15 pm - Lunch
1:15 - 2:30 pm - Small Group 5
2:30 - 2:45 pm - Break
2:45 - 3:45 pm - Teaching Session 6
3:45 - 4:00 pm - Break
4:00 - 5:30 pm - Small Group 6
5:30 - 6:30 pm - Dinner (staff meeting)
6:30 - 7:30 pm - Teaching Session 7
7:30 - 7:45 pm - Break
7:45 - 9:30 pm - Movie!
9:30 - 10:30 pm - Small Group 7

Sunday
7:30 - 8:30 am - Breakfast
8:30 - 9:30 am - Teaching Session 8
9:30 - 9:45 am - Break
9:45 - 11:00 am - Small Group 8
11:00 am - 12:00 pm - Closing Session

Other questions?

Call us at 1.800.49.PURITY or email us at info@gatewaymen.com.